Dear Lovers,
I have come to the conclusion that I need to make some radical changes in my camming approach. I feel very strongly that my kindness has been taken advantage of and my efforts to give you the most for your money have been taken for granted.
The lines of this job, and it IS a job, get so easily blurred because I really really like you guys and have a blast chatting with you. There are many members, both tipping and nontipping who I have come to consider friends. I am starting to realize, however, that I am giving off a "you don't need to ever tip me" kind of vibe.
The bottom line is that I am here to make money. That's what MFC IS, a place to pay models for the entertainment, fun and often times orgasms that they provide you. YES it is called myFREEcams, but that only means you can see us and say hi for free, not that we are going to do anything special for you for free. We are providing a service and the friendship and fun times that often result are just a super sweet fucking bonus, for all of us! I will always appreciate the smiles you guys give me!
Thing is, though, I put in a lot of time, money, and effort OFF cam to make this successful and to make my shows fun and enjoyable for you (and not to mention cheap!). All tips and purchases count towards the countdown, we do a lot of games with prizes, a lot video deals, and I reguarly use a tip-controlled vibrator so every TINY tip can bring us all the most excitement possible. I send out videos to people who have contributed to shows that end up not happening. I spend countless hours planning and setting things up. I spend money on electronics and furniture and toys and lighting and clothing and supplies all FOR this job. (But every fucking night non-tipping members are telling me about other things I should buy for an awesome show that they're never ever going to pay for.)
When all of my efforts are met with the attitude that I do not deserve to make any money because I'm "having fun" or that I should want to hang out for hours on cam for free.. I can't help but feel a little hurt. I have to spend money to even be on cam to talk to you guys. (Do have any idea what this job does to my electric bill?!)
I might make what seems like a lot of money in an hour but when you divide that out amongst all of my time/money spent on work related things and then take into consideration that no taxes are deducted from these earnings and add the simple fact that hey, I am getting naked and masturbating for hundreds of people... well I just happen to feel I deserve a little more than to break even. If this desire to flourish and do well for myself makes me a token whore then I will proudly wave my token whore flag and go forth to masturbate and hang out with the people who are willing to pay me for it.
I am by no means upset with MFC as whole (a lot of you are truly awesome and I am glad you're around) and I realize that the problems I have are largely my own doing. I don't want you to consider this blog entry as a scolding but more as an explanation of the changes I am going to be implementing.
I'm still going to be the same friendly chatty Lady, but I will no longer give any special attention to anybody that isn't tipping. I'll laugh at your jokes and exchange banter in public chat but I WILL NOT PM you or follow you on Twitter or click on links that you post in my room, or google things that you think I'd like. And I most certainly will not listen to any of your requests or have long chats with you during my non camming hours.
From now on my countdowns will have time limits! The harsh reality is that I have a scamscore to take into consideration and every time that I'm guilted into staying online during a slow night, it drops, therefore making it harder to do well in the future.
In the event that we do not make the goal within the set time limit I will still send out something special to anyone still in my room who has obviously tipped a lot towards the show OR I will do a mini consolation show that I feel is worth whatever I HAVE made. If nobody wants group or private after this point I am going to log off.
I am no longer going to masturbate in public chat. Group is only 10 tokens a minute and it happens RIGHT NOW, unlike countdowns to public cum shows. That means the 200 tokens you may have tipped for a public show that you have to wait an hour to see instead will buy you 20 minutes of immediate action.
I will only be accepting TruePrivates from now on. I find that most guys who take me private want me to do things that the spies may not quite understand. I do not like being judged by people whom our private session really does not concern.
In addition to Groups and TruePrivates you can also get a show via Skype.(prices to be decided soon) I will only be accepting tokens (up front) as payment and just like it's been with privates I will only be doing Skype shows with familiar faces er- screenames, and I will not watch or listen to your cam unless I decide I'm in the mood for it. Please do not hassle me on this matter.
Just because you tipped me once doesn't mean you get free stuff forever! I'm not saying I'll ignore anyone who hasn't tipped during a specific night but I need to diffuse the idea that one decent tip buys you unlimited Lady for all of time. Thanks for being awesome that one time, bro, but that $50 dollars you spent on me 2 months ago can't carry you forever.
There will be no more video discounts! My videos are already extremely decently priced and will still count towards the room goal. I think that's a good enough deal already. If you've been wanting a video there is no longer any point in waiting for a sale, the price is the price.
I'm sorry for this super long whiny blog post, but I felt the best way to go about this was to just to be stright with you. These changes will take some time to get into the swing of and I really hope my regulars will respect my decisions on this matter and change their actions accordingly.
We will still have a lot of good times and good cums in Ladyland but it will no longer be the safe haven for members who are out of tokens. I will not become the model you hang out with only when you're broke because oh she's so nice and chill and doesn't care about the tokens. There was a time when my kindness towards everybody paid off but I feel those days are over now that I am expected to not expect anything. It has left me feeling very used and unappreciated and it needs to change.
Alright, now listen to some ELO! It is impossible to be unhappy when this song is on, I swear to you!
Also, lets consider this my return to blogging! I promise it will not all be so somber! In fact, I am getting my dog tomorrow so expect lots of pictures!
Yours truly,
Lady
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